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This article will be useful for those men who are going to marry an Eastern European bride. Here are 5 most widespread mistakes westerners make with dating russian women. The most significant in the first tip; others are of about the same value.

1. Sending her money. Do not send money to somebody who you met via dating agency. You should understand that an honest girl would not beg; she has too much pride. Again, she has lived for more than twenty years without your “help”. Why does she ask for your help now? Any Russian woman who asks you for currency is only trying to deceive you. A former Soviet Union woman does not even consider the two of you to be in a serious relationship until you have seen each other in person! Would you give your cash to a woman from your country that you had just met? Understand it. It is just not smart and may bring you trouble (and makes the girls consider it is easy and encourages more of the same behavior).

2. Not questioning. You are searching for a wife, not a woman to only pass the time. Eastern European women are serious (at least most of them) and they expect the proper treatment. And one more thing, if you do not question to find out more about her, her dreams etc… she will sooner or later figure out that you are not serious. Then she will dump you, or just will try to get the most out of you! If you are really looking for a wife, you need to put her all kinds of questions! Not only put all kinds of different questions, but ask them several times in different ways, just to see if you get consistent answers By the way it's a great way to protect yourself from a scam!

3. Giving her wrong pictures. Do not give her pictures of your house or other welfare measure. Otherwise, women who are after wealth will be around you. An ordinary Eastern European girl is more concerned about your soul than she is about your attainments. If you focus on your attainments, she will probably assume you are a shallow and insecure man. Concentrating on your possessions only seems to work on girls from the US, the most superficial and windy girls in the world! Eastern Europe is not the US, there is no need to impress these women with attainments! Show them your personality, what you like to do, what you think and feel and you'll find a appreciative wife.

4. Not preparing properly for a visit. Do you know that in order to bring her to your country as your bride, you must go to her country first? Yes, it is the only possible way she can get a USA visa. An Eastern European woman, if she is serious, will need to meet you. You must be ready to make a trip to her country at some point in the future. A woman will usually give you about 6 months to tell her you will visit. Then some more months get ready. If you make her wait longer period she will decide you are not serious and probably write to someone she would consider is more reliable! Just be ready emotionally and monetarily.

5. Not having plan B. This is a big error! If you do after all go over to the former Soviet Union, you never know what will wait for you there. You sure will get some unexpected experiences! No matter how many letters you have exchanged with your woman or how many times you talked to her on the phone, once you see her in reality, things will change. It may happen that you both look at one another and understand it is not going to happen. Your emergency plan will protect you in this case. And do not go to meet just one woman (unless you have already met). Meet two or three. Also try to have good relations with at least one of the local agencies in the city you will be visiting. Write down their address and phone numbers. Later, if things don't work out, you will be able to go to another service and meet other girls.

So, try to follow these rules and you will surely have luck with russian girl